Frequently Asked Questions
Explore common inquiries regarding funeral celebrant services.
A funeral celebrant leads memorial services, creating personalised ceremonies that honour the deceased while offering support to grieving families.
I tailor each ceremony by including stories, memories, and elements that reflect the personality, religion and wishes of the individual being remembered. If the next of kin opt for prayers, I may mention by name those who are mourning. I offer support and encouragement to any others who might wish to give a tribute, share memories, or read a poem.
Yes — if you’d like family members, friends, or others to offer a tribute, memory, reading, or reflection, we can plan that together. I will work with you and anyone speaking to help them feel prepared and confident. You are in control of who participates and how — whether it’s a poem, memory, silence, or quiet moment of reflection.
Yes, whilst my own faith tradition is Christian, and that is where most of my experience is, I offer inclusive services that cater to various beliefs, backgrounds, and preferences, ensuring everyone feels represented.
Yes — I can suggest readings, help draft or edit tributes, assist with the order of service layout, proof-read service orders, and coordinate speaker timing if required.
I operate throughout Norfolk, UK, and can accommodate a wide range of settings, from natural spaces to traditional venues.
No, the authorised wording for the various denominations is copyrighted, and restricted for use by licensed ministers of religion. Because I have chosen not to have a licensed Church position now, I am able to use a range of my own material, which means I am not bound to any set texts.
No, funeral services that take place on church grounds are rightly managed by the local church leader. I can conduct ceremonies almost anywhere else, including crematorium or cemetery chapels, private or hired venues, or civil burial grounds.
No, funeral directors will take an overview, and will offer many services that I don’t – my focus is solely on planning and conducting the most fitting ceremony possible.
I charge a flat fee of £220 for the ceremony, plus travel costs. This includes liaising with the next of kin, planning, preparing and conducting the ceremony, support and follow-up.
Yes. I have learnt from experience that people live their lives in all sorts of ways, and that every life and every death is unique. I have crafted ceremonies for babies, children, sudden or tragic deaths, suicides, addicts, abusers, and with all sorts of complex family dynamics. I have learnt what can be helpful to say or do and how best to hold space in all these contexts and more. Done well, I know first-hand how powerfully healing a funeral ceremony can be, even in the most challenging circumstances.
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How to Arrange a Ceremony
Contact me by phone or email to begin a conversation about the kind of ceremony you’re hoping for. Many families reach out after speaking with a funeral director who is helping arrange the overall funeral, including the role of the celebrant, but you’re welcome to contact me at any point for a no-obligation no-fee conversation.
We arrange a time to meet and talk about the person who has died, the relationships around them, and what you feel needs to be acknowledged — or left unsaid. This is usually best done in person, but can also take place by phone if that feels easier.
Together, and in coordination with others involved, we shape a ceremony that is honest, respectful, and appropriate to the situation. This may include preparing a printed service sheet, arranging floral tributes, or supporting a charitable donation, if desired.
Ahead of the day, the details and practicalities are confirmed, allowing you to focus on being present, while I take responsibility for leading the ceremony with care and clarity.